There is a Japanese proverb that states “Fall down seven times, stand up eight.”
To me this probably the key to accomplishing anything. Some people might use a different saying such as “If at first, you don’t succeed, try try again.”
Either way, the point is don’t give up. The problem here is that this is a lot harder than it looks for two main reasons in my view:
One: giving up is harder than not giving up. Not giving up requires gumption or stick-to-itiveness or sisu (if you are Finnish) or Grit or whatever you want to call it. There is a great book out on this subject called Grit: The Power of Passion and Perseverance by Angela Duckworth that is definitely worth a read or a listen if you want to understand how to get better at not giving up.
Two: the other aspect of giving up refers to what you are not giving up on. At some point it might be worth giving up on a secondary goal or a “means” goal in order to continue being focused on a primary goal or an “end” goal. For example, if my end goal is to travel more, I could get there in many different ways. I could become a travel agent. I could create a job for myself that allows me to be paid to travel like a travel writer or I could build something and sell it for a great value and then travel whenever I want. Each of these means goals gets me to the same end of traveling more. However, I may want to give up on becoming a travel agent someday if I come across a great opportunity to be a travel writer now but I would never give up on the goal of traveling more. Does this make sense? It is also very important to pick the right end goals based on your own vision. There is a great book that walks you through this process called The Code of the Extraordinary Mind: 10 Unconventional Laws to Redefine Your Life and Succeed On Your Own Terms by Vishen Lakhiani.
So, what do you need to know to succeed at any goal.
- Pick an End Goal that is meaningful and aligned with your passion, principles and vision and never give up on this.
- Pick a Means Goal to get you to the End goal. These can change based on experience and circumstances.
- Figure out what you need to do every day to reach the above goals.
- Do these things every day.
- Don’t stop!
What kind of experiences have you have with goals and not giving up?
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